Sunday, 28 February 2016

INTERNET LIVES MATTER TOO!






Hi loves.

Allow me to re-inroduce myself and provide me with the ability to bless you all with motivation and raw positivity.

People always ask me how I deal with hate? Ive never had the answer until just recently. I was lost and slightly confused as to how I could answer all the questions religously asked easily and freely. This blog will answer it exactly.

It's no surprise that we live in a world where judging has become such a norm that in fact we fear to be ourselves due to the cruel words of others, and people being under the impression that when they're constructive to you they're assisting you by growth but, explain to me how you can give me constructive criticism when you've never constructed one?

I receive so much negativity and hate everyday on my social media accounts. However, I have learned to live with it and not let it effect me anymore.

Often, we allow these individuals to be so harsh that in fact we  start to doubt ourselves and our potential.  We start to doubt our self worth and our ability to be better. We start to doubt our character. Aswell as our inner and outer beauty. Ultimately this leads to lack of motivation from doing anything because primarily we are taken back by what others may think of what your next etc....

Ask yourself why we give these people the satisfaction to have vip seats to our lives? Why?

INTERNET LIVES MATTER TOO

See the thing is, I think it slips people's minds that in fact when we choose to put our lives on the internet it doesn't necessarily mean that we're not sensitive, that we don't have feelings and that we're made out of bricks. Therefore I find it difficult to comprehend how people think its okay to cyberbully. Just because one feels free-spirited  to put their life on social media whether that be for fame or an other passion purposes in itself, it doesn't mean we are numb to cruelty. I guess in time we learn to live with it and by pass every negative and hate we receive. But even then we can't turn our emotions off so be fragile my friends. All you haters who stay lurking. Day in day out you aren't a hater boo you are a FAN. Be kind, be good and do good because what goes around comes around. Treat those how you want to be treated.

Grow the ability to master having thick skin, it will get you so far. So so far. Not only on the social media aspect of things but ultimately the journey of life itself.

Know, its okay to receive hate, because when you start to doubt yourself and allow others to brain wash you into thinking you are any less then what you truly are, remember why you started and CONTINUE TO FIGHT. Fight and then fight some more, follow your dreams and don't give up. not today star, not today. Not ever.

Learn not to let others have control of your life and the choice you make. Let go of them and let God deal with them.


I hold you all in high spirits and positive vibes. Remember you are only as great as you believe so ponder, believe more then you breath and you can conquer the world.

Yes, I am a young muslim business women, who dreams so deep the ocean would get jealous. I aspire to inspire and although putting your life out there on social media can get difficult, it has only bended me slightly once before,  but today I stand tall and proudly by saying it could never break me. EVER!

 People always ask how I deal with hate online, the answer is I don't. I don't allow anyone the opportunity or provide them with the satisfaction to control my life but myself. So deuces to you hating ass' Mother f&*$ers! :)

Keep shinning and thanks for reading! Xo




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